Tuesday, August 29th, Part II - Off the Vent!!
Hi Everyody,
Just a quick update to let you know what a GREAT DAY Maria had today. Of course she would likely not describe anything about her current condition as great - as anything less than hell, really - but relatively it was a pretty good day. She started her morning with a rehabilitation massage from Dr. Mom at 5 am, and Albee and I gave her a mani-pedi and another foot massage (more like half of a pedi, as she got bored after the first foot was painted) later in the morning. One of her doctors informed us around 11 that her chest X-ray was "a thing of beauty" and that they would take her vent out at some point during the day, so long as she wasn't too swollen. So while we were all at lunch they did a scope, determined that she was not too swollen, and took her vent out. The vent was in one nostril, and she had her feeding tube and another tube into her stomach in her other nostril, and they hadn't planned on taking the other tubes out; however during extubation (sp?) she got a bloody nose so they went ahead and took everything out. They put her on a little bit of oxygen, but within a couple hours that was gone too. She sat up in bed for quite awhile, watched some TV with Albee, then took a little rest. With the vent out, she can talk a little bit, although it's difficult as her teeth are wired shut, but she asked Albee when she was going back to New York, and when Albee said Saturday Maria very clearly stated "me too."
While unfortunately that will not be the case, when Barb and I were with her later this afternoon her rehab doctor came in and told her that he thought she could go back to Seattle A LOT sooner than he had anticipated. Of course the final decision will be up to her neurosurgeon, but the rehab doc wants to make sure that she can sit up and "dangle" (feet hanging down, like they would if she was on a plane) for a period of time, so Ree demonstrated how capable she is by trying to climb out of the bed:) She gave a lot of double thumbs up the more he talked about Seattle, Harborview, UW, etc. . . no dates yet, but it sounds like in a couple of weeks - we'll know more tomorrow after talking to Dr. Dolan (the neurosurgeon, aka God) and the Care Manager, and after they talk to the people in Seattle. Five minutes after the rehab doctor left, the jaw surgeon, Dr. Mancuso, came in and, as he apparently had not gotten the memo about Seattle, started talking about how he would check on her every Wednesday for the next month. Maria was NOT pleased - until her nurse reassured her that he just didn't know that she was leaving sooner, and that she can get a new jaw doctor in Seattle. They took the bandage off her jaw, and everything looks great - she is looking more and more like her gorgeous self every day. Also, after talking to Maria in her room, Dr. Mancuso asked to speak to Barb in the hall - when she came back in, Ree asked for her notepad and wrote "what did that doctor say?"
The only bummers are (1) now that she's off the vent, they want her to sit up more so that she can cough on her own, which means she has to be awake, which means no pain med/anti-anxiety med - no fun; (2) now that the feeding tube is out, they want to put her on a liquid diet and let her drink through a straw, but the jaw surgeon doesn't think she can do that today, maybe tomorrow, but they might have to put a feeding tube into her stomach. Also no fun, but hopefully more comfortable than through her nose. She won't be able to eat at all tonight, but apparently that is normal for anyone who has been extubated.
With all of the doctors' visits, sitting up, etc., she was pretty exhausted by the time I left her with her 'rents and Albee (Will left this am) a little while ago, but I did get a big smile when I told her about all the people who are waiting to come to visit her in Montana, who won't be able to since she gets to go home so soon, and that they will all have to throw her a big party in Seattle instead:) Also, Albee and Barb and Dave have been reading her all of the cards people are sending, and she loves hearing them, and hearing about all of the people who have commented on the blog- we are thinking of printing out the comments and reading them to her tomorrow.
Our big outing tonight (the nurses change shifts from 7-8:30 each morning and night, and during those times she can't have any visitors, so we have to entertain ourselves outside the hospital for three hours each day) is to go to the mall to get Ree some tank tops and t-shirts she can wear under her turtle, since she no longer has to wear the hospital gown if she doesn't want to - woo hoo! She has made so many big steps today, I get tired just writing about it - I can't imagine how exhausted she must be. Keep sending her all your positive energy. . . and get ready for her welcome-home-extravaganza! Hopefully we will be able to set a date soon. . .

22 Comments:
Oh, Maria, this made my day! I'm so glad to hear you've still got your spirit and are setting your own schedule, just like always! Love to you and all your family.
maria! i had a bloody nose this morning too!! (and don't think i didn't think about you) I haven't had one in like two months then all of a sudden this morning it was like a siv, i couldn't stop it!! I'm planning on coming out this weekend to visit you, as long as that is still okay with everyone. I love you little sugarpea! I can't wait to get my hand squeeze, i've been dreaming about it. I love you tons
BBF
Kat
P.S. Kudos on all the progress, however i wouldn't expect anything but a speedy recovery from my little power house
P.P.S. Thumbsuckers for life.
P.P.P.S. If you get to stay in seattle for awhile think of all the maple bars that will be at your fingertips
YAY ree! Glad to hear you are doing so well. We love you!
Maria, I'm a complete stranger. I got here via Sarah B's site, she's a woman I have so much respect for. When I read about your accident, I felt horrible. I'm so happy you're OK.
Words fail me right now. I wish I held that perfect thing to say that would make a difference. There's nothing more frustrating than feeling helpless. As selfish as this sounds I wish I could write that perfect thing you want to hear just to make you laugh. Instead, I'll just say that I'm thinking about you here in New York.
I read so many horrible stories living here in NYC. When you have so many people living in one area, the news can be horrible at times. There are so many unhappy endings.
I feel a great deal of peace knowing that you're surrounded by loved ones. I feel a great deal of peace knowing you're going to be OK. The next few months might be difficult, but you're going to be OK.
I don't know what to say.... I guess, in the end, I get the feeling you're going to come out of this holding something special. You're here to share it with the rest of us, and already that's such a wonderful thing. Don't let the frustrating, dark times get you down, sweetheart.
From a stranger,
Michele H.
Maria, the last week two songs have been stuck in my head -"Maria" from West Side Story and "Pumpkin pie" from your musical that Max and I saw you in a month ago. I can't remember all the words so I usually sing to myself "Pumpkin pie, pumpkin pie, da da da da da da da da, pumpkin pie!" You'll have to teach Carly and Albee how to hum it. You were so cute dressed up in your "Patches" rags leading all those five year olds dressed as pumpkins! It should be US law that all five-year olds wear pumpkin suits! Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and I'm so glad to read about all the progress you've been making. Keep it up!
Maria Yea!!! More and more good news every day...I'm thinking of you all of the time. I can't wait for you to come home so I can visit and we can have really fun madrona girl movie marathons!
ps- my mom, dad and stew are sending their positive thoughts and love your way as well and they are sitting here with me.
LOVE YOU BABY!
xcxo Riki Tiki
Maria you are a hero! Keep up the astonishing work...you will be a stronger person for the rest of your life because you were able to survive this. Much love and many prayers.
Maria-
Fab news on getting off the vent!!! I was so happy hear the wonderful news, especially considering today was the first day of school and it can tend to drag on. Keep up the good work- you are an inspiration to us all! Can't wait to see you!!!
Maria! Everyone at Post is thinking of you. It will not be the same here until you return! We will keep you updated on everything going on here, and you will be on everyone's minds--especially at the Company Meeting next week. Ryder sends his baby best. Stay strong!
Maria...I haven't talked to you since you were at WSU and a fellow Kappa, but I want to say that my heart goes out to you and your story brings me to tears even thinking of your situation. I am glad to hear you are doing so much better and I wish you the speediest recovery!
Reba! I am so so happy to hear how well you are doing, and love hearing the many ways in which your beautiful personality is shinning! I'm thinking of you and your family everyday and can't wait to see you in Seattle.
Lovin all this good news! You are sooo amazing maria! Keep it up lady love!!!
love love love ya!!!!!
Hannah :)
Maria, you are making fabulous progress! (I would expect nothing less from a Troop 1098 alum.) We'll be so happy to have you back in Seattle. Sending you love.
Yayyyyyyyyyyy! How great to be off the vent and even sitting up to watch tv! Keep it up Ree, we will all be there to help you once you do get to move to Seattle! Love ya!
yeah Maria!! We are so happy that you are making big strides every day. The kids and I are praying for you every day. Glad to hear Seattle is in sight. WE love ya.
Stephanie
Maria,
Everyday I feel like you are making progress by leaps and bounds. We are all so impressed by your tenacity and even more that you are doing it your own way. It will be nice to be back in Sea town and it sounds like you will have a steady stream of friends and family to say hi to. Keep up all the good work and I knows its been an amazing week because I get the good news update phone call several times a day!
We all miss and love you here!
Nick
PS My Haiku is forthcoming...
That is fab reesa! get on those doc's to let you come home. So great how well you're doing! I am attempting to make you a music CD at work today- pretty sure I can manage it without getting caught! I'm thinking Nina Gorden . . .
Baby,
Last night I played songs that I know you like and danced around my apartment by myself and used my hairbrush as a microphone. Among the selected numbers were "I want to dance with somebody" and "All I want for Christmas is you." Love you like crazy pudin. You're doing great and will be dancing along side me in no time.
Abba
Maria! I am so proud of you! I cannot believe you are doing so well and going to be back with us here in Seattle soon! I cannot wait till that day! Keep showing those doctors whose boss and get out of there soon! Love you tons!
Jody
Wow such progress in one day!! Maria you are an amazing girl!! It makes me so happy to come on here and see such great news, and I can just picture that pedicure happening with only one foot being painted... maybe the second one will get it's chance at a beauty treatment some other time- Or Maria could just start a new trend! She always has two different socks on, why not do one foot painted one not eh? I am thinking of you always and can't wait for my chance to see you darling! Love you!!!!
To Maria and all the Padens,
I am so happy for all of you!!! Maria I have never met you, but I feel like I know you and care for you so much. My sister Linda loves you and your family with all her heart. She and I talk daily and she keeps me updated on your progress. You are truly an incredibly strong person, and a person that is loved by lots and lots of people. I know it's extremely difficult for you right now but it will get better everyday.
Just keep up all your hard work and determination.
Toni Cella-Green (Linda Cella-Reff's sister)
I am so thrilled to hear that Maria is continuing to get better! I'm a complete stranger, but a regular SarahB reader.
I had my jaw wired shut for six weeks after major surgery and one of the best things I ever got was one of those kids doodle pads where you draw on the plastic with the little red plastic "pen" and the writing shows up, and then you can lift the plastic and it erases itself. I hauled that thing everywhere.
And as far as the liquid diet, Minute Maid Fruit Punch masks the taste of liquid vitamens well. And if she gets sick of Ensure, once the scabs heal over, I recommend cream of chicken soup through the blender. And homemade egg nog tasted really good (and the extra protein was appreciated). Hamburgers, however, do not go through the blender well. Neither do nachos.
My sister just had her reconstructive jaw surgery (its a genetic birth defect thingie) in Seattle. Dr. Mathis did the procedure and he was really good. Don't hesitate to contact me if you need resources for Seattle jaw folks. My family knows the gamut!
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